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How to show a man that you care about him, what kind of romantic deeds do they appreciate? We interviewed men and they shared ways to melt their hearts.

“A few months before my 28th birthday, Lena secretly learned to play the guitar from me. Just to play my favorite song on my birthday, from Aquarium. I was speechless, I could not believe that she spent so much energy for me.
Boris, 29

“My girlfriend knows that I am passionate about cars and value my car very much. Once, when we were at the dacha, while I was sleeping, she washed it completely and even perfumed it a little. Her smell appeared there until the end of autumn, when the salon was very warm. And he reminded me of her."
Kirill, 24

“Mine once took me sledding down a hill. I don’t know why, but I still remember it as the most romantic moment in our relationship.”
Roman, 23

“On our first date, I casually mentioned that I couldn’t find one rare Van Gogh album anywhere. When we celebrated our first anniversary, Anya, quite unexpectedly for me, gave me that very album. And by that time I was completely desperate to find him!
Roman, 42

“I sometimes have to work from home until late at night. In such cases, my wife always brings me a saucer of ice cream when she herself goes to bed. At this moment, I feel such tenderness for her ... "
Cyril, 30

“Masha somehow recorded a very touching message, recorded it on a CD and discreetly inserted the disc into the radio in the car. I listened to it on the way to work and could hardly work all day thinking about her.”
Leonid, 27

“One of the sweetest moments was when she brought me my favorite chocolate cake… for breakfast!”
Stas, 23

“When we were celebrating the second anniversary of our meeting, Tanya read aloud to me a closed post from her blog, which she wrote after our first date. It was so passionate and frank that I probably would have been scared if I had known about it two years ago. And now it's probably the most touching thing I've ever heard."
Alexey, 28

“Once Katya greeted me with an unexpectedly passionate and long kiss: she wrapped her arms around my neck, raised her leg, all things - as if she had not seen me for a year or more. I was very flattered by her enthusiasm."
Igor, 29

“Last year, without any formal reason, my girlfriend gave me an album where the history of our relationship was set out day by day: with pasted photographs, newspaper clippings, and so on - I don’t remember everything. But I didn’t even know that I meant so much to her. ”
Victor, 26

“One night, Masha pulled me out into the yard and encouraged me to climb over the fence to the fenced playground together to ride on a swing. Silly. But I fell in love again."
Danya, 23

“Before our third date, Sveta insisted that only she decide what we would do that evening. I prepared for the worst. What I didn’t expect was to go on a date to my favorite pub, and then at my house until one in the morning play shooting games online and eat pizza together. I couldn’t even dream of such a date!”
Dima, 22

"Last Valentine's Day, my girlfriend gave me a piece of paper with the phrase 'I love you' written in 15 different languages."
Nikolay, 26

“I am not a very impressionable person, but still I completely melted when my common-law wife gave me a bouquet of roses ... And not all at once. I found one next to me on a pillow when I woke up. The second - in the bathroom, when he went to shave. A third in the kitchen, and so on."
Mikhail, 39

“She shamelessly flatters me. Just. Nothing turns you on like a girl hugging you and complimenting you."
Tolya, 36

“A girl at the gym who I didn’t expect to be in a relationship with once left a note in the pocket of my bag, “You are cute.” Now we live together, and I still keep this note in my wallet.
Vladimir, 25

“My girlfriend blew me away by giving me a pair of very comfortable house slippers, my size. It is not clear how she knew that I would never buy them myself.
Sergey, 34

“My wife kept an old recording on a dictaphone of me singing a song with a guitar in the company of our mutual friends. After all, we hadn't even met yet! It’s nice to think that even then she liked me.”
Vadim, 40

“Nastya masterfully comes up with different funny nicknames for me, and almost every day new ones. This is an amateur, of course. But it touches me when she calls me, say, Drakoshik.
Eugene, 28

It's sad, of course, but any passion subsides over time, and family life slowly turns into something familiar and routine. During the years of marriage, the spouses study each other by heart and gradually get used to a loved one.

However, such a habit can play a cruel joke if a woman looms on the horizon of a loved one - unfamiliar, and therefore interesting.

In order to protect yourself from such “strangers”, save your marriage and diversify family life, it is important to throw new emotions into the cauldron of passion. And here an interesting question arises, how to surprise a husband in the kitchen, in bed, on his birthday, in order to turn into a mysterious person again.

The shortest distance to the male heart is through the stomach. The wisdom is old, but modern married ladies often forget about it. And absolutely in vain!

Some of the fair sex will begin to be indignant - they say, I already try to cook various yummy things for my husband, so nothing can surprise him.

In the gastronomic arsenal of the average woman, there are the simplest and most delicious dishes that are easy to prepare when you come home from work.

If you know a lot about cooking, impress your beloved man with a true masterpiece. For example, for dinner, a pheasant with pineapples, a turkey roll or something more exotic will be waiting for him.

Good to know! If you decide to turn to recipes of foreign cuisine - say, Indian, try to arrange a themed dinner.

For example, put on a sari (for lack of this clothes, use a pareo), turn on folk musical motifs and draw a circle on your forehead. It will turn out unusual and very cute.

Change yourself

Another option, how to surprise your husband, lies on the surface. Try a radical change in your image. Why necessarily cardinal, you ask? A man is unlikely to be surprised by slightly shortened hair or extended nails. Representatives of the stronger sex rarely pay attention to such “little things”.

Therefore, you need to try to impress. For a stunning effect, you can:

• dye your hair blonde (or vice versa);
• braid dreadlocks;
• apply a temporary tattoo with his initials;
• get a piercing.

Of course, it is important not to overdo it with changes so that your husband recognizes you when he returns from work. Joke!

In fact, the surprise should be pleasant. If a loved one does not like red-haired ladies, it is hardly worth appearing before him with fiery hair.

On your birthday, you can and should surprise your loved one. If you can afford, for example, a trip to Paris, the room for maneuver increases significantly.

However, even with limited financial resources, there is a chance to show imagination.

Any original “little thing” that will definitely surprise a man can become a birthday present:

• paired T-shirts with unusual patterns (in the form of your and his portraits);
• a gifted book by your favorite author with an oath of allegiance signed by you;
• a poem about him, your relationship, happiness and feelings for him, written by you personally;
• photo album or collage with the best photos of the guy and with flirtatious inscriptions to them;
• applied on asphalt with washable paint (be respectful of neighbors and housing and communal services workers);
• an evening spent in a luxurious hotel room;
• a relaxing massage and an amazing dinner for a man who returned tired from work.

There are many curious ideas for birthday presents, but only you have studied your boyfriend well, so it’s up to you to choose the best gift in the world.

By the way, it is not necessary to wait for any occasion in the form of a holiday to present your present.

Present it at the beginning of the week so that the good mood is with your spouse until next Monday.

For men, the quality (and quantity) of intimate life with their soulmate plays a huge role. Try to play on intimate strings to bring back old emotions in family relationships.

According to experienced ladies, just one passionate evening is enough to rekindle the old sharp feelings.

First of all, you need to decide for yourself what experiments you can go to in order to surprise a man in bed. Let's say you put on a nurse's or a schoolgirl's costume without shame, but who will guarantee that your missus will not consider such "mask shows" as banal vulgarity.

If you want to surprise your spouse with a private dance like this for their birthday, try to find out how he feels about such events. You don't want to look ridiculous and funny in front of your beloved man, do you?

If you are firmly convinced that any of your initiatives in bed will be approved by your spouse, you can safely proceed to the implementation of your plan. We offer several options, although the list is endless:

1. Arrange the striptease we have already mentioned before a hot night. This gift is prepared in advance, so you will need:

• several strip plastic classes;
• sexy underwear;
• erotic musical accompaniment;
• well-balanced and rehearsed movements.

2. Remarkably diversify married life and various role-playing games. There are many variations of "costume performances", up to various children's fairy tales. But here, too, certain rules must be observed:

• buy or sew your own costume suitable for the scenario (it should be depraved, not funny);
• spend a few rehearsals in front of a mirror to better enter the role of a "nurse", "strict teacher", etc.;
• behave according to the role to impress a man;
• for some spouses, it’s better to prepare a little for the upcoming event, otherwise you run the risk of amusing, rather than exciting them.

3. Try with your loved one for a birthday or just because, for no reason, new sexual positions. This will not only impress the guy, but also significantly diversify the further sexual family life. To surprise your husband with new poses, do the following:

• refer to the relevant literature or walk around thematic sites;
• first tell your partner that you are tired of the monotony and are thinking about something new (this way you will understand his reaction);
• directly invite the man to try new positions after an exciting massage or a loose romantic dinner.

4. Romantic sex on silk sheets in bed, although it remains a classic, is unlikely to surprise anyone. You can try to spice up the process by making love in unexpected places. If you are leaning towards public places, exclude the appearance of random passers-by in them. The sequence of your actions is as follows:

• imagine where you would like to make love (in the back seat of a car, on the shore of a lake, in a forest clearing, in a cinema on the last row);
• prepare the necessary supplies if they are required for this process;
• it remains only to bring the faithful to this place and explain why you are here.

Since not everyone is ready for global experiments in bed, try to make tiny changes in your sex life at first. It can be new caresses, movements, music, or, on the contrary, silence in bed. The main thing - let it remain a surprise for your beloved guy.

Some women, reflecting on the question of how to surprise their husband, begin to come up with very extreme surprises.

However, you can cheer up your spouse without expensive and crazy gifts. Most importantly, leave a man in the dark, then he will consider you, his beloved woman, a real mystery and will not get bored next to you.

What else should not be forgotten? To make married life play with bright colors and emotions, try to spend weekends and joint leisure time as varied as possible. Arrange original dates for a guy more often, for example, in the form of:

• going to a hockey or football match;
• romantic trip to nature;
• excursion trip for the whole day;
• boat trip.

In addition, it is important not to get hung up on one of your images, but to change periodically, hitting your lover with a new hairstyle, makeup and clothing style. The only condition is that the updated image should suit you and not cause rejection in a man.

I would like to remind you that you can surprise your chosen one with a couple of affectionate words or a gentle kiss in the morning. If you begin to notice that family life is like two neighbors living together, return the dynamism to the relationship. Show your feelings and affection with small surprises, surprise your husband with gifts and caresses in bed, and the attention of your partner will belong only to you.

Hello, I'm Nadezhda Plotnikova. Having successfully studied at SUSU as a special psychologist, she devoted several years to working with children with developmental problems and advising parents on the upbringing of children. I apply the experience gained, among other things, in the creation of psychological articles. Of course, by no means do I pretend to be the ultimate truth, but I hope that my articles will help dear readers deal with any difficulties.

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How to surprise a man at the moments of meetings and why you need it

The fact that you need to surprise a man - we found out. Now let's talk how to do it.

1. Need to change as often as possible.

A man is polygamous by nature, he will always strive to "get acquainted" with as many women as possible. You have to learn to be different so that he is always in good shape. In the classroom, we master various images: Coquette, Predator, etc. If on the previous date you chose a light, alluring image of Sexy, then on the next one, for contrast, act as a Predator. Then he will realize that he absolutely does not know you and he will have to make a lot of efforts to achieve the location of such a woman. He will understand that he still absolutely does not know this woman, and she will have to be sought.

One Moscow businessman was very rich. He liked to treat his friends with red caviar. And he himself loved her very much, although this is an expensive pleasure. Once he flew to the Far East to solve his not very "clean" affairs. His partners turned out to be bandits and, in order to knock him out of signing important papers, they closed him in an apartment where there was a transshipment point for smuggled red caviar. They gave him a spoon and turned off the water in the pipes. He was very fond of red caviar ... until this moment. Very quickly, he signed all the papers ... Now he can’t look at caviar. Variety matters! In everything!

2. Have some surprises from time to time.

It can be a romantic dinner, an unusual date (oriental party, picnic, carnival night). Give free rein to your imagination.

This story was shared with us by a man who can be called a professional seducer. It's hard to surprise someone like that! But one girl did it anyway. When she came to visit him, she asked him to take a shower, and in the meantime she put on an erotic outfit, lit candles, turned on the music. When he returned, the girl offered to give him a super erotic massage! While she was doing it, she whispered all sorts of interesting things in his ear. And suddenly he says: "Darling, wait a minute." I got out, got dressed and left. For a week he couldn't think of anything else but her! So she won his heart.

3. It is possible and necessary to surprise and maintain interest when communicating on the phone.

You need to speak not in a businesslike strict tone, and even more so not indifferently bored. Your voice should be velvety, sexy, excite a man. This is a completely successful way to make a man's interest flare up even more. In our classes, we specifically “set” such a voice.

4. It is very important to be able to intrigue.

How does it work? Let's say you're telling a joke. And at the most interesting place you suddenly say: “Oh, sorry, I have to run (I have a second line, etc.)”, and the man will only have to guess what is next. Involuntarily, your image will pop up before his eyes. He won't even understand why he's thinking about you.

With the help of intrigue, it is possible from scratch, without wasting strength and energy, to arouse a very great interest in a man. Of course, here it is better to think in advance how you will do it.

In our studio

QUESTION FROM THE COACH:

How did you manage to intrigue a man?

TRAINING PARTICIPANT LYUDMILA:

I told the man that I was doing a great massage the night before he left. Then he constantly called from a business trip and asked: when will everything happen and how will it all be. He was very intrigued.

Or another example. You get into the car and your man asks: “Which restaurant are we going to?”. If you simply answer him: "Let's go to La Maison", a map of the route you will take pops up in his mind. He thinks that somewhere there is one-way traffic, he can somehow go around it, that he needs to refuel somewhere along the way, etc. And all these thoughts lead him further and further away from you. What if you say, for example:

“Today I really want to go to a restaurant where I had SUCH a story…”. The story may be completely ordinary, or it may not have been at all. But your interlocutor will already be excited.

Or, let's say, when you make an appointment by phone, so that he can't wait to meet you as soon as possible, say that you have a surprise for him, which you can only tell about in person.

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The representatives of the stronger sex also like it when women try to please them. For them, this is an expression of love, attention, care, they understand that they are not indifferent to their beloved. When a woman is interested in them, it allows a man to feel at his best. That, no matter how the feeling that you are the very best, can cheer up and please a man.

For every man, joy is something different, something that makes them feel pleasure. In order for your loved one to be happy with a surprise or a gift, you should know well what he likes, what he dreams about, what annoys him, take a closer look at his hobbies, friends, what he communicates with them, what he does at work, and whether he likes this.

If a woman loves a man, if he has become a very dear and close person for her, of course, she always wants to please her beloved. But how? What will bring joy to the dear?

How can you please a man?

It is always pleasant for a person to receive something that evokes positive emotions in him, leaves pleasant memories, makes it possible to feel that he is needed, important, that he is loved, they think about him, they hear him, he is interested in him. And it doesn't matter if you've been living together for many years or just started dating. Everyone loves when they are given attention, spend time and energy on them, think about how to surprise them, hear and notice what they are doing.

You can always ask a man what makes him happy and he will tell you what makes him happy. Study his page on social networks, what groups he is in, what he is interested in, what he communicates with others about or what he studies, ask what books he reads or where he likes to go.

If you just met, ask him about it, and you won’t need to look for a topic for conversation, he will talk about it himself. People are always pleased to talk about what interests them, attracts and pleases, most importantly, to hear them.

What can please a man is very individual. Someone is fond of brands, books, music, follows the work of a certain group, someone loves cars, animals, sports, is passionate about his work, loves outdoor recreation, hiking, tourism, traveling, someone likes to communicate, do charity work, so that no one knows about it. For each of them there is always something rare, unique, something that will not leave them indifferent.

You can offer to spend the evening together watching the game of his favorite football team or go to a game that takes place in your city, please him with a fishing rod, a book, a record that he has been looking for for a long time, an offer to go on a hike, go to where he has been going for a long time .

Someone will be very pleased if he is pampered in the morning with his favorite cake, a magnificent candlelit dinner, a massage after a hard day's work, satisfy his secret desires, which he will say in his ear in the bedroom.

It will certainly please any man, and your beloved will not remain indifferent if he is awakened in the morning by a woman who only dreams to please both herself and her beloved. Evening is evening, but morning is a special time.

Do not forget to wear the gifts that he gave you, this will show him that his attention is very important to you. After all, it is not easy for the representatives of the stronger sex to choose gifts for their loved ones, go shopping, trying to find something that his woman will like, therefore, when they give them, they put all their love and desire to please their beloved into them. Seeing that you liked his gift, you will make him happy.

Cook your favorite dishes, he will appreciate it and this will undoubtedly please his beloved man, and when he is late from work, try to have a delicious dinner waiting for him. There is a possibility, meet from work. Wouldn't he be pleased that they were waiting for him until late at night.

Try to criticize and scold less, express dissatisfaction. If you did something that hurt you, say so calmly, without making him feel like a naughty child, otherwise he will become defensive. Any issues can always be resolved calmly, without tantrums, accusations and tears, it is enough to learn how to express your emotions calmly, without trying to arouse guilt in a person. This will definitely please a man who has long heard reproaches and criticism against him, instead of compliments, admiration and support. Pleasant words always delight a person and cheer up, and when they have not been for a long time - even more so. Therefore, despite your reluctance, tightness or inability to compliment, learn to do it.

Although men always look stern, restrained and do not themselves show excessive emotions, the costs of education, they are pleased to hear praise and gratitude addressed to them. He can dismiss, be embarrassed, hiding it behind sarcasm or sometimes mockery, but deep down he will appreciate such attention to himself.

Yes, and it will become easier for you yourself to come to terms with something, to stop paying attention to something, when every day you notice and try to see only positive qualities in your beloved, something that is worthy of compliments. Sometimes it helps to re-evaluate how lucky you are with a man. He works, tries to provide for his family, helps around the house, with children, does not refuse to help when help is needed, next to him you feel safe, reliable and comfortable ... Is he really not worthy of compliments ?!

Top 10 ways to please a man

• Chat with him about topics that interest him. Do not wait for him to talk about them himself, ask yourself, ask interesting questions. A woman who knows how to listen is worth its weight in gold by the opposite sex. Because she is interested in a person, he means something to her, and no matter how it makes her feel necessary and important person.

• When your relationship continues, be sure to ask him about business, talk about what inspires him, pleases, interests, worries and worries. Listen more. With whom, if not with you, he will want to discuss this, because he has no person closer. In addition, it is not easy for the representatives of the stronger sex to do this, so if you can show him that you care about what he thinks and are ready to listen and empathize with him, he will not want to part with you.

• In order to please your beloved man, do not refuse to go with him wherever he wants, especially if he knows that you do not experience as much joy from attending a sports match as he does. He will definitely appreciate your desire to please him. Only if you decide to go somewhere with him, you don’t need to demonstrate what kind of sacrifice you made for him, otherwise, instead of enjoying the fact that you are interested in what he likes, you will ruin his evening and deprive him of the joy of the planned event. It's better to just let him go with friends to enjoy the upcoming evening than spoil it for yourself and him. Often, even your agreement that he will spend the evening with friends when you already live together is no less joy for him than sports tickets as a gift. You know that the final of the World Cup is coming soon, prepare treats for him so that he will remember the evening for a long time, especially if you then patiently listen to his enthusiasm or indignation about the game.

• Your man loves his car, clean it or wash it. There is a desire - do it in the summer, somewhere in the country or on vacation, in a bathing suit, and as relaxed as possible, but so that only he sees you and then the day will end very pleasantly for both of you.
• Record him a declaration of love and leave it in his phone or player. Instead of music, he will hear how you feel about him.
• If he works until late at night, prepare him tea, coffee, dessert and take it before going to bed. What could be more pleasant than such care. Of course, such attention will please any person.

• He loves animals and is involved in helping them, or is a volunteer, which is not particularly covered, join him. Nothing strengthens relationships like a joint and good deed. This can be financial assistance, help in spreading information through your social media accounts, a willingness to go and plant trees in the place of a burned forest or collect garbage where unreasonable people left it, who do not understand that they are thereby taking away health from themselves and their children. when they don't think about others.
• Become a member of the club where he goes, he will be pleased to help you, suggest, talk about what he likes.
• You know that your loved one wanted to watch a certain program or movie, download them to him so that he can watch them at any time convenient for him.

To please your man, look at what he likes, what he prefers to talk about, what thoughts he shares with you. He will definitely open his heart to his beloved, you just need to be ready to hear him, and then you will definitely not go wrong when choosing a gift, surprise or words that will show him how much you love him and how much you need him.

Long-term intimate relationships with one person can simply get boring if there is no variety in them. To prevent this and maintain the brightness of feelings and the strength of desire, it is enough just to learn how to present pleasant surprises to your loved one in bed.

How to surprise your loved one in bed

How to surprise a man in bed: simple ways

If you have no money for a luxury hotel where you could spend an unforgettable night, as well as the desire to buy sexy outfits and special toys, use what is given to you by nature. A private dance can be a great option: you can easily and quickly learn seductive movements with the help of special video lessons, and then demonstrate your skills to your loved one.

You can try to learn strip plastic or choose belly dancing. One way or another, preference should be given to sensual movements that will excite your man.

To surprise your loved one in bed, you can also learn the basics of erotic massage. This option is especially appropriate if a man is tired and not too disposed to love pleasures. Gently kneading his body and paying special attention to erogenous zones, you will give him the opportunity to rest, recuperate, forget about problems and relax. A gentle massage, gradually turning into lovemaking, will surely pleasantly surprise your partner.

Break habits. If you only have sex in the bedroom in the evening, why not do it in the living room during the day? Let sex be spontaneous, unexpected - this will certainly surprise a man.

Costumes, toys and other nice things

Do not think that you have managed to learn all the erogenous zones of your beloved. When you have enough time for long lovemaking, try looking for them again. You can stroke the body with your fingers, a soft brush, or even your own hair, carefully watching the man's reaction. So you can even find those erogenous zones that he himself did not know about.

No need to focus on just one place. Stroking the back between the shoulder blades, biting the earlobes or gentle touches on the lower back can be very pleasant for a man.

A great way to surprise a man in bed is to wear a sexy suit and wig. Some men like the idea of ​​making love to a mysterious stranger dressed in a very revealing and original outfit. Such a simple technique can give intimate relationships a special urgency.

And finally, try to fulfill your partner's sexual fantasies. Men often prefer to remain silent about them, but if you still managed to learn something, use this knowledge. Feel free to use special toys - often they allow you to diversify sex and make it more exciting and enjoyable.

Statistics say that 85% of men consider good sex to be one of the main factors for a strong marriage. Many people know from their own experience that after 3-4 years of marriage, intimate relationships subside. For some, this is nothing to worry about and they are happy to enjoy a new, calmer and more romantic period in their lives. For others, this becomes a problem and the spouses begin to seek satisfaction of their sexual desires on the side. To make the fire of love as bright as in the first months of marriage, it will not be superfluous to know how to surprise a man in bed. And experts are sure that this is not at all difficult to do.

How to surprise your loved one in bed?

Usually, spouses very quickly adjust to each other's biorhythms, lovemaking usually happens on certain days or times. To add variety to your sex life, it is already enough to simply break this unofficial schedule.

• Try also to awaken the dormant hunter instinct in a man. Having conquered you once, your husband has calmed down and therefore behaves somewhat passively. However, as soon as you show at least a drop of resistance, his interest will wake up again. Therefore, do not be afraid to play a little cat and mouse with your loved one - he will again be able to feel like a conqueror of your heart.
• Every man probably has his own secret fantasies, try to unobtrusively find out about them and the answer to the question “how to surprise your husband in bed"will be found - the effect of the unexpected realization of one's secret dreams into reality cannot be compared with anything.
• Do not be afraid to go for experiments, among which role-playing games are in the first place. Yes, and according to sexologists, this way to revive the former passion is one of the most effective.
• And there is something else that will drive any man crazy. Excellent possession of intimate muscles will bring unforgettable pleasure to your loved one, and it will also be useful for the woman herself, for example, during childbirth and pregnancy. Doing such training on your own is not worth it, it is better to contact specialists in this matter.

Change yourself first!

But in order to take advantage of these tips, a woman will most likely have to change herself a little. After several years spent together, it's time to leave any constraints and behave freely and liberated in bed - this is the only way the experiments will be successful, and the sexual life will be interesting and vibrant. Men love self-confident women, but at the same time they want to be the main thing for a woman, teach them and take care of them. Let your loved one take the lead sometimes, but take control from time to time.

4 scenarios for sexual games

1. Among the various sexual games, games with clothes are not in last place. Let a man never admit it, but sometimes he would like to be a victim. The aggressive behavior of a woman excites them, so feel free to take the initiative in your own hands, grab him by the belt and do not let your beloved descend until the very climax.
2. You can also undress your husband yourself, starting with a T-shirt. After removing it over your head, pull it back so that you fix your partner's hands behind his back. Having enough of the caresses of open areas of the body, you can continue undressing further.
3. Pants are also a great piece of clothing to stir up passion. Having removed the upper part of the clothes, you can slowly begin to unbutton your trousers, all the while kissing the man. There is also the question ofhow to impress a man in bedit’s not worth it - with your pressure and caresses you will slay him on the spot.
4. Undressing in front of a man, boldly looking into his eyes, you awaken an incredible passion in him. And then act according to the circumstances. For example, you can hug him from behind, cling to him with your whole naked body and caress all accessible parts of the body, including his main erogenous zone.

As soon as you feel that the relationship has become monotonous and stable, immediately take action. Be affectionate, gentle, self-confident and do not be afraid of surprises and experiments, and an excellent sex life is guaranteed for you and your loved one.

How to surprise a man in bed: Video

Representatives of the opposite sex are no less romantic and sometimes modestly and silently expect a surprise from their beloved, one that they will not be able to forget for a long time.

What can surprise him? Expensive watch? Or maybe give a tie to match the new suit?

Everything is much easier! Surprise your loved one in bed. After all, since ancient times, men have done crazy things and were ready to die in a duel, for the sake of the night with their only one.

The main thing is not to forget the following:

1) Spontaneity.

Your man, like no one else, knows everything about your sexual biorhythm. This, unfortunately, often leads to predictability in sex. Therefore, we will derive a rule for ourselves - “not sex should adapt to life, but our life should adapt to sex”

2) Be not available.

A man is a hunter and conqueror by nature. He is used to getting his own, and in sex this manifests itself more than ever, and all attempts at resistance lead to even greater excitability. But you should not surrender to his captivity right away, because the predator loves to play with his prey.

3) Gift box.

We are used to giving gifts in bright, eye-catching and intriguing gift wrapping. Multi-colored paper, painted bags and bows are ready to be offered to you in souvenir shops. Our gift also needs to be beautifully presented. No need to spend half a day in front of the mirror, applying kilograms of cosmetics and sleeping on curlers all night. Decorate your body with a chain around your waist or playful jewelry on your chest, a red bow tied around your buttocks or other feminine “things”, this will make your man absolutely delighted!

4) Experiment.

It's no secret that every man has secret desires that they represent in their sexual fantasies, but not every woman will decide on his proposals. Perhaps you should try his sexual inventions? But you should not inform him after the fact, do it yourself during the process, let the initiative for a dizzying act come from you.

5) Romance by candlelight.

Another way to pleasantly surprise your loved one is to create a romantic atmosphere. Whatever place you choose for your cozy nest, whether it be a bath or a sleeping bed, the main thing is to create the necessary, relaxing atmosphere. Here you can use candles and aromatic lamps, the main thing is that the smell is not sharp and does not distract from the process - the ideal option is ylang-ylang, patchouli or sandalwood. Light music and rose petals, a whisper in your beloved's ear, and your man is smitten on the spot!

Even the best and most stable relationships can become boring and uninteresting. If you have just such a moment and want to make a difference, then you should take the initiative into your own hands and figure out how to surprise your beloved man with non-standard actions in bed. Experimenting will help rekindle the fire, which will take the relationship to the next level.

What kind of women do men like in bed?

Of course, it is impossible to give an unambiguous answer to this question. Some men like plump girls, while others prefer skinny ladies. It's a matter of taste here. However, if a male representative is going to sleep with you, then he definitely likes you. But no matter how attractive his partner is, not a single man will like a young lady who is notorious and constrained in bed. Therefore, in order to understand how to win a man in bed, you need to be self-confident and liberated.

If we talk about role-playing games, then sexologists say that according to statistics, 80% of men would like to see their chosen one in the form of a nurse, schoolgirl or policeman. This is a good reason to go to the sex shop and buy the right outfit to surprise your lover.

How nice to surprise your beloved man in bed?

As you know, men love novelty and variety in intimate relationships. So that a loved one does not look for new sensations in someone else's bed, a woman needs to understand that this male need needs to be satisfied. In addition, for such efforts, she herself will be pleasantly rewarded.

To figure out how you can surprise your beloved man in bed, you need to approach this issue individually. Before you prepare some kind of experiment, you should make sure that the partner will be in to evaluate it. For example, if he returns home tired after 12 hours of physical work, then he is unlikely to be playful, but rather enjoy a delicious dinner. Now, if a man is rested and not hungry, then you can and even need to prepare some kind of surprise.

For example, prepare some gourmet dishes, make a romantic setting, light candles. Dress nicely and don't forget sexy lingerie. Instead of the standard foreplay, you can start petting right in the kitchen. If usually sexual intercourse took place in the bedroom, then such an initiative on your part will definitely please the man.

How to surprise your husband in bed: some practical tips

One of the main aspects that make relationships stronger is sex. Here are some basic tips for keeping a husband interested in his beloved wife.

If a woman is in love, intuition wakes up in her, thanks to which she can subtly feel the needs of a man in bed and embody them. But, unfortunately, such feelings can dull over the years. It becomes problematic to surprise a loved one after several years of marriage. To avoid this, first try to keep yourself in shape so that a man can admire you.

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Do not forget, until it comes to bed, a man will love with a look.

Take care of your appearance and additional attributes that will help create a romantic atmosphere, as well as surprise a man.

How to become more attractive in the eyes of a partner?

Even if you are far from each other, you can bring joy to your loved one, surprise him or remind him of your love in various ways:

• a romantic gift: sweets, a T-shirt, an original keychain, a computer mouse or a heart-shaped flash drive;
• love letter: write him all the good things that you think about him and your relationship, you can in verse, attach a beautiful picture;
• if a man spends a lot of time driving, order him a song on the radio;
• decide on an erotic photo shoot, such a gift can hit the heart;
• contact the holiday organization service and order an original surprise for your loved one;
• top up the balance of his phone, a trifle, but nice;
• using a webcam, dine alone in a romantic setting by candlelight.

How to surprise a man on his birthday?

• give him what he has long dreamed of, equipment or items for his hobby: an athlete - a racket or a surfboard, a billiard lover - an original cue, strings and a set of picks are suitable as a gift for a guitarist, such a gift will pleasantly surprise;
• invite for a horseback ride just the two of you;
• please a man with a new romantic dance that you learned especially for his birthday;
• call an active man to jump on the Jolie Jumper, so you will surely surprise him great;
• give him a Balinese massage, especially focus on the feet, such a procedure soothes and relaxes;
• give a certificate for a master class “Wines of France”;
• take a man to a buggy race;
• give a medal of a real man.

How to surprise a man on February 23

How to surprise a guy with a kiss

All guys love to kiss, and every girl wants to kiss her beloved young man in a way that he likes. Kisses are different, it can be a friendly kiss on the cheek, it can be passionate, or it can be tender, shy. But really surprising your boyfriend with a kiss isn't easy.

What secrets do you have in your arsenal?

• An unexpected kiss. The easiest solution to surprise your man. Quickly approach and touch his lips with your lips. Hold for a few seconds, then slowly pull away from him and say something gentle. Guys love the initiative, so this kiss will be very effective.
• Kiss on the back of the neck. Usually this kiss is actively used by guys, but believe me - they also like it when they are kissed on the neck! Sneak up to the guy from behind and give him a light hug. Direct your hot breath into his ear. After that, gently kiss him on the neck, and when he turns around, smile. The best way to surprise a guy with a kiss.
• Cold kiss. Almost every girl has such lip glosses, "with a chill." Before the meeting, make up your lips with such gloss and kiss your loved one. He will be very surprised to feel a slight chill on his lips after the kiss.
• Delicious kiss. Buy yourself a lipstick with a strawberry or cherry flavor and invite your boyfriend to “try” your lips when you meet. Not a single guy has ever turned down an offer like this!
• Romantic kiss. This kiss needs a special atmosphere. When you're standing somewhere on the roof of a high-rise building at night or in a less extreme but romantic place - look meaningfully into your boyfriend's eyes, take his hands, snuggle with your whole body and slowly kiss! Your young man will be very happy with such an initiative!

Experiment with kisses, the main thing is not to allow routine and monotony in this regard, and then the guy will never dodge your kisses!

If for some reason you do not want to dance a striptease for your husband, then dance a belly dance for him - this dance is taught in any school of oriental dance.

Some women are embarrassed to dance such dances in front of their husbands because of several folds on the stomach and cellulite on the buttocks, but believe me, this is not the main thing for a man. The main thing in the dance is not your figure, but your eyes and the energy that comes from you. But if you are still embarrassed about your figure, then you can cover a small tummy with some beautiful outfit, besides, you can make a subdued light, then you can relax and dance an amazing dance for your husband.

Surprise a man in bed with sexual games

Everyone loves to be kissed and gently caressed. It happens that when a couple is together for a long time, partners forget about these pleasant little things and, having sex, immediately get down to business. Show more tenderness and passion, and the man will be surprised. Try to play with him, tease him, and then "surrender" to him. Feel free to show a man how much you like his caresses.

A clear opponent of football, who prefers “snotty” series to long-awaited matches, is guaranteed to surprise a man with tickets given to the game of his favorite team. Prepare in advance for joint viewing in order to become not just a boring fellow traveler to the stadium, but an interesting conversationalist and an ardent fan.

You can surprise your soul mate with the usual female cunning. For example, when your man goes to the sauna or fishing with friends, just don’t “play” him on the phone with the question “when will you be home?”. Let him rest and enjoy his personal space. And if the “party” will take place within the walls of your house, for example, while watching the long-awaited match, leaving your territory, prepare some goodies or at least sandwiches for the male company. Believe me, your loved one will be envied not only by his friends, but also by himself.

A wife is a true female friend who will understand and forgive everything and provide for life.

Mother is an amazing symbol of forgiveness and care, which, without further ado, will wipe the snot and support in difficult times.

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In addition to the ways described above to surprise a partner, there are still a lot of all sorts of tricks. You can arrange a home movie show by choosing a good erotic movie to watch, or look through magazines of a similar orientation together. Try to take turns reading aloud to each other the once sensational "Emmanuelle", perhaps excerpts from the book will inflame your imagination so much that you immediately want to repeat what you read.

Some girls use caresses in public places, offer to make love in an elevator, car or in the bathroom of a nightclub, practice different sex techniques, whisper their desires to a young man during a meeting with friends, send unambiguous messages all day long describing what just waiting for a loved one when they return home. This, of course, has a positive effect on the intimate relationship of a young couple, because it does not let them get bored and introduces a certain sharpness and piquancy into them.